Slowing Down in Berlin

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We are eating out people.  We love to try new types of food and also different restaurants.  We also eat out because it is convenient when we bring work home.  In Charlottesville, VA we got to know a ridiculous number of places to eat for having lived there for only four years.  These are the options we are used to:

1. Fast food.  Not usually an option we take as we don't like most of it. (20 minutes)
2. Take away/Semi-fast food (like Panera or pizza).  This is quick enough that it saves time from cooking when we are busy working. (20 minutes)
3. Going to a restaurant and ordering and eating quickly, again because we're going back to work. (1 hour- maybe even 45 minutes)
4. Going out for a nice leisurely dinner.  This is the type where we have no plans, we may be hanging out with friends, we order a bottle of wine and we sit even after they have given us the bill. (1.5-3 hours)

The Slow Movement would approve of Berlin.  Here are the main options:

1. American fast food.  Why are we going to eat McDonalds in Berlin?  We aren't. (0 minutes)
2. Take away/Semi-fast food.  The options we go for here are Doner Kebab (Gyros), Falafel, or Pizza.  You can actually sit at most of these places if you want.  If you stay, you pay when you get up and tell them you're done.  They sometimes have wi-fi and don't care if you stay. (20 minutes- several hours)
3. Cafe/Restaurant.  (Of course this is a huge number of places, so this is an over simplification I'm sure.)  First you walk in and seat yourself anywhere that doesn't say "Reserved".  In some places they may take 20 minutes to get you a menu (not because they don't see you, but because you are talking) and in some places it is on the table.  We've waited up to 40 minutes before ordering without it being an issue.  They bring you the bill only when you ask.  They sometimes bring you wine or an after-dinner drink after you pay.  They never make it seem that you should leave.  (1.5-5 hours)

This has had several major impacts on our eating out. 

We are working on finding our favorite Kebab and Falafel places in Berlin.  We have a long way to go and love it enough that we eat them at least once a week. 

Cafes and restaurants aren't always as expensive as their US counterparts so we go to them even more frequently.  We have tried to go to a place and get out in an hour and the closest we got was an hour and a half.  This is often a result of us asking for the bill and taking a while to get it.  Wait staff in the US love for you to leave.  More people=more money.  In Berlin, we have stayed at countless places for 4 hours.  For example on Friday we went out for Indian food with some friends.  We arrived early at 7:45pm.  We left at 12:30am after asking for the bill.  Yesterday we ate dinner at an Ethiopian restaurant and left 2 hours to eat.  We ended up being late!  Today we went to brunch at 11:30.  We ate and then stayed and did some work (they have wi-fi and are officially a "reading lounge") and left a little after 3.  (Admittedly, we do this in the US in places we can, but there are fewer places that allow it.)

I am the first to feel bad for taking a table for too long.  But there really is no incentive to leave here.  We are the odd ones when we are in a hurry.  Then we leave before people who were there and finished eating when we sat down.  Actually even when we take a "long" time for us, we are still quick for here.  And it seems when we ask for the bill too early they forget more often and we have to ask again. 

This makes Berlin a great place for me.  I can use to slow down a bit (or a lot).  It will also teach me to leave more time if we have somewhere to be later, because if you sit somewhere that you don't order at the counter, it's going to be a while.